Regardless of your Superman techniques

How to Squirt: A Step-by-Step Guide for Women

For the woman, this means you will have to take most of your own weight on your shoulders and upper back. If you have a bad back, stay away from this position. The silicone on the vibrator is complemented by its ABS plastic body.

Squirting, also known as ‘female ejaculation,’ isn’t necessarily what you see in porn. Female ejaculate is when the urethral sponge (G-spot or Skene’s gland) becomes highly aroused and fills up with fluid. The fluid inside the urethral sponge that leaves the body is what’s called squirting.

Then as you see that she’s getting more and more excited, and she is getting closer and closer to orgasm, then you’re going to want to go faster and you’re going to want to go harder. So faster and harder, and to go faster and harder, what’s going to happen is that your whole hand is going to start moving back and forth. Not just the pump, but now a back and forth is happening. You want to do this kind of pumping action and you’re going to go faster, and faster and faster like this.

However, squirters will comment that eating asparagus doesn’t affect the smell of the liquid that they ejaculate. Learn these and you’ll be on your way to one of the most exciting and satisfying orgasms of your life. It’s the 21st century, which means there’s a whole world of massagers and vibrators out there that are specially designed to target the G-spot. If you are the partner who is trying to help her squirt, be sure to reassure them that this is what you want, both beforehand and even in the moments leading up to the orgasm. Suffice to say, any real “sex” to get a woman squirt is even rarer in and of itself. Targeting the G-spot has been proven to be more pleasurable than other vaginal stimulation.

Everyone’s body is different and responds differently to the same positions, tips and techniques. As with all the techniques in this squirting guide, experiment with these two to see which you prefer. Let’s jump straight in, with the basic technique for squirting during sex. Squirting during sex requires a caring and understanding partner with whom you have great sexual communication, along with the right techniques. Some women enjoy the sensation, while others don’t. If you feel any pain or discomfort while juicing your G Spot, then avoid it.

You can use her own arousal for an all-natural lube. There are some great ones out there that don’t contain harmful irritants and are therefore super friendly on your girl’s intimate parts. As always, trying to jump through hoops for its own sake is never a good idea when it comes to sex.

This is going to strain your hand a lot so it’s good if you build up your hand. You have to use your dominant hand, so if your right handed, use your right hand, if you’re left handed use your left hand. Even my right hand will start to cramp because you need to do this consistently and with a lot of pressure and you can’t let up. So as she is coming closer and closer to orgasm, you’ve got to really put a lot of pressure into it like this.

As she gets aroused and horny her Skene’s gland will start to swell and fill up with fluid (this is fluid that she ejaculates when she squirts). I covered her vaginal anatomy in-depth in the Pussy Eating Guide, check it out now if there are any parts of her body you’re unsure about. Here are a few of those most frequently asked questions about squirting during sex. Women squirt when they are in the right state of mind. Regardless of your Superman techniques, if you do not address emotional blockages, she will not squirt. To reach her G-spot, form the Spiderman grip (as if Spiderman is shooting his webs) curve your fingers upward inside her, and put pressure on her G-Spot.

In fact, a study of women who have squirted in the past found that 41.8% of squirters were worried that they were peeing and 28.3% were worried that they would make a mess [13]. If you are unable to communicate these roadblocks to your partner, they won’t be able to help you to overcome them and actually squirt (and have good sex). To get into the Bent Spoon position how to make a female squirt, your partner will first lie down on their back. They need to bend their legs slightly and place their feet firmly on the bed/ground. Both will provide different types of stimulation to your G Spot and help you squirt. Give your partner feedback so they know what you prefer.

With a finger or your tongue, begin giving her clitorial stimulation to edge her closer to an orgasm. This heightened state of arousal is a pivotal feature of squirting as it helps build her excitement toward the final release. When some women orgasm, there is the fluid released from their Skene’s glands, which are the glands that surround the female G-spot, causing them to ‘squirt’. It’s also important to note that squirting is not necessarily a sign of a «better» orgasm or sexual experience.